Genearl Differences between Head and Heart people.
These are relative and tend towards the extreme and we can be a combination of these behaviours
Examples
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Heart |
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Introverts expression of emotions |
Extroverts expression of emotions |
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Prefers socialising 1-1 |
Enjoys socialising in groups |
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Realistic, logical and expresses self logically |
Expresses emotionally |
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Thinks things through before reacting |
Reacts spontaneously |
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Priority Business, career financial security |
Priority is intimate relationship |
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Capable of expressing emotions on in private and when they are in the mood |
Expresses affection freely |
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Assumes all is OK unless told otherwise, doesn't need or give pats on the back |
Asks for reassurance and compliments when needed |
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Enjoys working alone |
Enjoys working with people |
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Enjoys individual sports |
Enjoys team sports |
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Comfortable with Intellect |
Comfortable with body |
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Dresses to minimise attention |
Dresses to maximise attention to the body |
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Decisive after weight up all consequences |
Decisive and spontaneous |
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Head Ruled |
Heart ruled |
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Speaks Literally, hears inferred |
Speaks inferred, hears literally |
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Direct and to the point |
Verbose |
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Tends towards obsessive compulsive behaviour |
Flexible in attention to detail |
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Sexually undemanding |
Sexually responsive at all times |
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Enjoys working in the mind |
Enjoys working with hands |
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(Affectionate only in private) |
Affectionate in public and private |
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Naturally takes initiative in business rather than the relationship |
Naturally takes the initiative in social, sexual and relationship concerns |
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Prefers to hire help to fix car, around house etc. |
Prefers to fix things around the home, car etc. |
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Feels emotional pain mentally in the head |
Feels emotional pain physically |
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Feels relief at the end of a relationship if the end is proceeded by trauma |
Feels emotional and physical pain at the end of a relationship |
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Chooses practical gifts for partner |
Chooses gifts thinks partner should have |
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Needs own space and interests and gives partner the same freedom to do the same |
Likes to include partner in all activities |
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Enjoys sports with an element of danger |
Enjoys sports that provide opportunity to socialise |
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Prefers practical, economic cars |
Prefers sporty fun cars |
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Good in a crisis and does not fall apart under pressure |
Creative and romantic |
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Takes time to Analise how they feel |
Lets out the emotion of the moment – lets you know where you stand |
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